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Let’s Rethink Life

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I am The Rethinker.

A curious mind who may have arrived from a planet a few centuries ahead of Earth. I stay anonymous on purpose, because the thoughts are what matters.

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Rethinks by The Rethinker

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Rethink Everyday

Why Your Outfit Matters More Than You Think – From Invisible to 1,000 Compliments

It begins“I used to dress to blend in — today, people stop me in order to compliment my outfits. From feeling invisible to receiving over 1,000 compliments, something shifted.”

How I went from dressing to blend in to a thousand compliments — and how your outfit can spark joy, courage and connection.

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Rethink Emotional Healing

How I Became a Crook and Healed Myself of It

It begins“I loved stealing. Only from institutions, of course, never from people.”

Stealing felt like a game I always won — until one scam showed me who I had been playing against.

28 min read Tap to turn over
Rethink Festival Wisdom

Stop Chasing the Perfect Set at Festivals. There’s a Direct Way Into the Zone.

It begins“Recently, some of my friends received an invitation from me. It said, in large letters: YOU ARE OFFICIALLY INVITED TO BE DRUGGED AND KIDNAPPED.”

After forty festivals, I found a way into the zone at home with friends — without waiting for the perfect DJ set.

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Rethink Festival Wisdom

Drugged and Kidnapped: How to Build a Party That Takes You Into the Zone

It begins“Every element of this party exists because I watched its absence ruin a party. That sounds dramatic, so start with the name itself.”

The ingredients that turn a living room into the festival night you came for.

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Rethink Festival Wisdom

Drugged and Kidnapped: We Barely Spoke All Night. We’ve Never Felt Closer.

It begins“New here? Start with Part 1 to understand why I stopped chasing the perfect festival set.”

The social physics of a silent disco party: three headphone channels, total freedom, and an intimacy no conversation could create

8 min read Tap to turn over

Often, it’s different than we think.
And often, it’s much better.

I’m The Rethinker. Let’s look again.

Personal Rethinks. Open questions. Different possibilities.

A series in 3 parts

Drugged And Kidnapped

3 thoughts, one story.

Start with part 1

Explore the Rethink worlds.

Lately around here.

What has been added and rethought here.

  1. New Rethink Drugged and Kidnapped: We Barely Spoke All Night. We’ve Never Felt Closer. Rethink Festival Wisdom
  2. New Rethink Drugged and Kidnapped: How to Build a Party That Takes You Into the Zone Rethink Festival Wisdom
  3. New Rethink Stop Chasing the Perfect Set at Festivals. There’s a Direct Way Into the Zone. Rethink Festival Wisdom
  4. World opened Rethink Connection Let's explore how we can connect easier and deeper
  5. New Rethink How I Became a Crook and Healed Myself of It Rethink Emotional Healing
  6. World opened Rethink Emotional Healing Emotional Healing is easier and faster than you think

Try on a new thought.

Pick the one that sounds familiar. Each leads to one Rethink that turns it around.

Do you also think that sometimes? 3 thoughts, each with its own Rethink

A new angle

What if there is a reliable way into the Zone?

Rethink Festival Wisdom · Part 1 of 3

Stop Chasing the Perfect Set at Festivals. There’s a Direct Way Into the Zone.

13 min read

In the making.

Thoughts that are being written right now.

SoonRethink RelationshipsRethink Connection

We talked for an hour, why am I still miss you

Almost readyHow to stay close over the phone and messages in a long distance relationship

November 2026Rethink Sex

How not watching porn anymore changed my sexlife

WritingI've been a porn addict without knowing it. Read my story, how I did the full reboot of my brain reward system and how I learned to understand what women are after more.

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Should couples live together for more happiness and closeness?

Watch and listen.

Short audiograms, one thought each.

Why Your Outfit Matters More Than You Think – From Invisible to 1,000 ComplimentsRethink Everyday
How I Became a Crook and Healed Myself of ItRethink Emotional Healing
Part 1 of 3 · Drugged And KidnappedStop Chasing the Perfect Set at Festivals. There’s a Direct Way Into the Zone.Rethink Festival Wisdom
Part 2 of 3 · Drugged And KidnappedDrugged and Kidnapped: How to Build a Party That Takes You Into the ZoneRethink Festival Wisdom
Part 3 of 3 · Drugged And KidnappedDrugged and Kidnapped: We Barely Spoke All Night. We’ve Never Felt Closer.Rethink Festival Wisdom

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Rethink by listening.

For walks, trains and the minutes before sleep.

Drugged and Kidnapped: We Barely Spoke All Night. We’ve Never Felt Closer.Part 3 of 3 · Drugged And KidnappedRethink Festival WisdomAudiogram9:31
Drugged and Kidnapped: How to Build a Party That Takes You Into the ZonePart 2 of 3 · Drugged And KidnappedRethink Festival WisdomAudiogram13:59
Stop Chasing the Perfect Set at Festivals. There’s a Direct Way Into the Zone.Part 1 of 3 · Drugged And KidnappedRethink Festival WisdomAudiogram15:05
How I Became a Crook and Healed Myself of ItRethink Emotional HealingAudiogram23:27